Love Languages

I have decided that if my cat were to have a love language it would be touch... second being words. 
Now on to my real reason for this post.
It drives me nuts when people use their love language as a reason for doing things.  Like someone whos language is touch.  They go up and hug someone like me who really dislikes touch.  I can ask nicely for them to not hug me, and their response is "but touch is my love language!"  That is all well and good, but that is like me, whos love language is gifts, is like going into someones room and taking something and my response being "well my love language is gifts so I wanted this." 
Just a recent pet peeve of mine.
Have a great day!